Our Family 

Mike (Our fighter) , me (Lindsey) and our three children. Jake(9), Celia(6) , and Graham (4)


April 30, 2020




The number that will forever make me think of you. 

Especially when it rolls around  each month.


The day I began a new journey without you. 

But I’m learning it’s not really without you. 

This new journey, 

It’s heart shattering . 

Breath stealing . 

It’s completely life changing. 

It’s so sad right now. 


April 18, 2020

Day +1258

Forewarning this is a somewhat sad post about grief

Once again I have been overwhelmed by your love and support these past three weeks. 

I am so  sorry I have not been able to thank you all individually yet or on some days even reply to your texts. I start emails and can’t get through them. And I think the next h...

April 4, 2020

April 3, 2019

We fully surrender. 

For the past 4 years , I have desperately wanted the world we live in to slow down.

One early spring day in late April 2016  , Mike and I were unexpectedly jerked off of earth and placed on a frightening but life changing unfamiliar planet. 

Planet cancer  , where time stood still and p...

March 25, 2020

Day +1234

Let the morning bring me word of your unfailing love, for I have put my trust in you. Show me the way I should go, for to you I lift up my soul. 

Psalm 143:8

 Dear fightlikemike army, 

I opened an email from a dear friend this morning that started like this ,

Just when you need everyone the most , here comes soc...

March 2, 2020

Day 1211

Psalm 19. 

Let me keep surrendering myself until I am utterly transparent. 

Dear Fight Like Mike army,

Some of you have been following along since the beginning of this fight and know the story and meaning behind my Dad’s card we carry with us each day. 

As the fight  continues , I keep thinking of the very first appo...

February 21, 2020

Sorry for the long email and random thoughts. Take what you want from them, I am aware they don’t always make sense or are grammatically correct. I continue to write thoughts throughout days with my main focus on our kid’s. So that one day when Mike HAS  beaten this stupid disease , we will be able to tell them how much h...

February 21, 2020

Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him. Psalm 37.7

I wanted to send a quick update on Mike, many of you have emailed or text and we are grateful for all the love.  The weeks have seemed particularly hard. Yet I’m learning in a painful way , the longer I am patient with God , the more peace I find. 

We are...

January 24, 2020

FLM Friday. 

All the love here. 

No Alone time or personal space ever.

Pets are healing in that way. And  probably is a good thing. 

“If you want to feel loved , get cancer. “


A dad of three , husband to a breast cancer fighter , wrote this amazing article an...

January 21, 2020

DAY + 1170

I have been struggling lately. I’ll be honest. The past two months events have by far been the toughest for us and I sometimes feel like I have hit a new low. New fears . New worries. New sadness. ( Also could men have shared the love of  hormones .. I mean dang ;)

And it’s not until I admit it or it just finally...

January 3, 2020

Spending an unwanted amount of time in the hospital gives these words a truer understanding. 

Our last 15 day stay in the hospital left me again begging for very few things in this world. Hospitals strip things down to what is important in life time and again. All I could hope for was...


For health. 

Health for M...

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